Episode 247: Changing Your Beliefs and Identity

Episode 247: Changing Your Beliefs and Identity

Published on: 13/10/2025

Discover how the thoughts you repeat shape your beliefs about yourself and pornography. Learn to separate facts from stories, challenge limiting beliefs, and practice new thoughts to create lasting change and regain control over your choices.

Episode 189: No More Band-Aid Solutions

Episode 189: No More Band-Aid Solutions

Published on: 26/08/2024

Are you tired of trying Band-Aid solutions to quit viewing pornography that never seem to work long-term? Why are these quick fixes ineffective? And what should you focus on instead?

Episode 186: Working Backwards

Episode 186: Working Backwards

Published on: 05/08/2024

Are you tired of falling back into old patterns on your journey to quitting porn? Buffering, as I call it in my world, describes the activities we engage in to escape uncomfortable emotions we might be experiencing, which can look like anything from viewing porn to overeating or overspending.

Episode 180: Ask a Coach: How to Become Shame-Resilient

Episode 180: Ask a Coach: How to Become Shame-Resilient

Published on: 24/06/2024

This week’s Ask a Coach question is one many of you can probably relate to, and it goes like this: “Does the shame I feel after slipping up and viewing porn ever really go away?”