Get out of the shame cycle for good
Stop starting over again and again
Feel more at peace with yourself
Before anything else, I want you to hear this clearly… there is nothing wrong with you.
It’s because what you’ve been taught doesn’t actually work for what’s going on underneath.
You’ve probably been here before. You decide you’re done, make some progress, and then something shifts,stress, loneliness, boredom, and you’re right back where you didn’t want to be.
And when that happens, it’s frustrating. It starts to feel defeating. So you tell yourself you just need to try harder… but the same pattern keeps showing up.
You’ve been trying to stop the behavior, but not understand what’s driving it.
So you keep working on the surface, while the real cause underneath never changes.
That’s why the cycle keeps repeating.
Not because you’re failing, but because the root cause hasn’t been addressed.
And once you see that, things start to make sense.
Because this isn’t about forcing yourself to stop. It’s about understanding what’s happening and learning how to respond in a different way.
When that shifts, urges feel easier, your mind gets quieter, and you’re not stuck starting over anymore.
The full process that heals the “under the iceberg” layers — so you experience true, lasting freedom. Step-by-step videos and worksheets designed for deep application, not just information.
Unlimited access for 12 months. Submit questions anonymously or join the hot seat for in-depth coaching. Trauma-informed, neuroscience-backed coaching where you can watch real identity shifts happen in real time. Many members report major breakthroughs just from listening to replays.
Personal accountability and support between calls.
Six deep-dive sessions with personalized guidance through your 3-month intensive.
Easy, on-the-go access with built-in accountability. Connect with others who truly understand in a safe, supportive, and completely judge-free community.
Unlimited access for 12 months. Ask questions and get individualized feedback from Sara or one of her coaches. Get real support between coaching calls — post as often as you’d like. You never have to figure this out alone.
Free for your partner to attend. Led by a betrayal trauma specialist.
Especially Difficult Moments Process
5-Minute Failure Turnaround Tool
Strong Urge Guided Mindfulness Exercise
Cut Your Stress, Anxiety, and Worry in Half with Mimi Porter
Understanding Kink and Diverse Sexual Interests with Dr. Kersti Spjut
Accomplish Massive Goals with Sara Brewer
How to Have Difficult Conversations with Tina Gosney
Plus more
Not sure if this is the right fit for you yet? Or want more payment option? Talk with someone on our team who’s been through the program, get clarity on what’s actually going on for you, and see if this program is the right next step.


• Learn how to maintain commitment easily.
• How to quickly get back on track when you feel unmotivated.
• Discover a shame-free reason to quit porn that excites you to keep going.

• Learn how FAILURE IS IMPOSSIBLE and SIMULTANEOUSLY INEVITABLE.
• How to take every “slip up” and turn it into a true “stepping stone.”
• Gather data around your slip ups instead of ignoring them and pretending that they didn’t happen.

• Learn how how to accept your normal, natural sexual self while choosing sexual actions inside your value system.
• A deep dive into masturbation, why we are afraid of it, what the research really says, and how to make decisions for your own life regarding masturbation.
• Dispel "Porn Panic" and use non-biased research to dispel shame and increase your individual self control to really move past this issue.

• Learn to manage urges easily without willpower.
• Stop the willpower/give-in cycle.
• Stop being afraid of urges. Learn how to process urges.
• Decrease desires without running away, resisting, or relying on blocks and filters. Urges are only difficult because you've been taught to handle them with willpower. This milestone will make quitting porn so much easier.

• How to heal deep internalized shame around this issue so that you can quit easier than ever before.
• Get out of shame spirals, and make quitting porn an enjoyable process instead of shame-filled process.
• Learn how to address the root of your specific shame stories.
• Learn easy, effective body techniques to help yourself in a shame response. Shame is more than a feeling, it impacts multiple systems in our body.

• Learn to stop using porn as a coping mechanism.
• Exactly what to do when you have emotions that lead to viewing porn like loneliness, boredom, stress, etc.
• Exercises to stop feeling apathy, shame, and worthlessness.
• What to do if you’re stuck in a shame and binge spiral.

• How to BECOME someone who doesn’t want porn.
• How to quit even though there’s a part of you that enjoys pornography.
• Why you view pornography even if you don’t have urges.
• How to change your identity to really move past this.
You are not stuck with this forever. This is not something you just have to accept as a struggle for the rest of your life.
A mind at peace - no more regret and fear.
Beautiful, fulfilling relationships built on trust.
No more exhaustion and burnout from willpower.
Deep self trust and confidence in yourself and that you can change. (If you can learn to quit porn, what else could you do?)
Firm belief that you are not dirty or unworthy, so there's no more hiding from your friends, parents, or spouse.
Being at peace with yourself and in your relationships.
More time and energy for work, school, and other priorities.
Not being afraid of your sexual urges. Knowing exactly what to do when you feel them.
Learning to feel worthy and spiritually aligned again - even if you aren't perfect at this.
Increasing your emotional intelligence, understanding of your brain, and how to build life sustaining habits that serve you.
No more passing up opportunities (like dating or work) because you believe you're not good enough.
Your 6 sessions are scheduled based on your needs and your coach’s availability. For members on longer payment plans, your one-on-one sessions are distributed in a balanced way throughout your payment term. This ensures you’re always receiving value during the months you’re paying.
Lifetime access to the course content, plus 12 months of group coaching and community.
Absolutely. Many people start with Signature and upgrade when they realize they want more personalized support. Just reach out and we’ll help you figure out the right next step.
Every group coaching call is recorded. You can watch replays anytime through the program portal. Many members find the replays just as valuable as attending live.
Sara’s coaching calls (coaching directly from Sara), other coaches’ group calls, support group sessions, milestone-specific calls (focused on each stage of the program), relationship calls (for both partners), and connection calls. There are multiple calls every week, so you’ll always have options that fit your schedule.
It’s an online coaching board where you can submit questions, worksheets, or anything you’re working through—and get a personalized written response from one of our coaches within 24 hours. It’s like having a coach on call between your scheduled sessions.
No. You don’t have to worry about someone stumbling onto your profile or finding out that you’re a part of this program.
Possibly. Check with your employer or insurance provider if you are unsure. Once you sign up for Overcome Pornography for Good, you will receive an email receipt that you can include in any paperwork.
We get it. Especially if this is your first time investing in yourself this way.
What would you pay for a wedding ring, a car, or a vacation? Probably much more than the program costs.
We pay for the things that are important to us. What is quitting pornography worth to you?
Yes! You can see the payment options above. Or send us an email ([email protected]) if you're interested in a 12-Month Payment Plan.
If you’re not sure if joining is right for you, that’s okay. Book an assessment call and we’ll help you figure out what makes the most sense for your situation, your goals, and your budget. No pressure, just clarity.


You don't believe the phrases, "You'll have to struggle with this forever," and "Once an addict, always an addict." You know shame is making it worse.
