Using willpower to muscle your way through urges.
Shame based motivation.
Filters, apps, or simply avoiding your phone altogether.
"All or Nothing" accountability programs sending you in circles.
Just praying more or being more spiritual.
Focus on "fighting" the urges
Addiction based models
Distracting yourself with exercise, a song in your head, or ignoring the urge.
—Camerin
You don't believe the phrases, "You'll have to struggle with this forever," and "Once an addict, always an addict." You know shame is making it worse.
There is a slurry of shame perpetuating programs out there that keep you in shame cycles of relapse.
Our focus is to get to the root of shame, all-or-nothing, willpower, and other mindsets and learn how to quit porn for good. Forever. Let’s go.
Overcome Pornography for Good without shame and without willpower.
More confidence than ever before in work, family, church, and other areas of your life.
No more being afraid of urges and triggering situations like work trips, stress, social media apps, being alone, late nights, disappointments, and other triggers.
More loving and authentic relationships with yourself and with others.
More love, connection, and trust in your marriage.
Less wasted time and more time to do what inspires you.
No more shame based isolation and hiding because of this habit.
Stop self sabotaging, overcomplicating, and giving up early.
Deep self love and acceptance.
No more being afraid of your sexuality and of sexual urges. Knowing exactly what to do when you feel those urges.
No more burn out. Stop the willpower and giving in cycle.
—Anonymous
Outline that takes you step-by-step and breaks down the process in an easy to digest and measurable format.
Access to a library of short and to-the-point video trainings so that you can learn effectively and quickly.
Worksheets for structure and deeper application.
You never have to feel alone in this again. Share wins, ask for support, and get ideas through other people going through the exact same program. You also get coach support within this board.
Outline that takes you step-by-step and breaks down the process in an easy Weekly Live Coaching Calls so that you get individualized help and attention (you don’t have to try to figure it out alone). Access to the program app so that you can listen to coaching calls on the go.to digest and measurable format.
Additional free trainings on breathwork, shame and spirituality, relationships, difficult conversations, and finding pleasure outside of pornography.
Lifetime access to the Ask a Coach board ($50 add on) for individualized email support from a coach. Ask questions, submit work, get coached, as often as you want. Lifetime access.
Learn the fail-proof process for managing difficult moments and powerful urges.
FREE monthly marriage coaching calls for you AND your spouse to help you navigate your relationship challenges. These calls are with our relationship expert and betrayal trauma expert.
Quickly turn slip-ups into stepping stones with the failure turnaround checklist. You truly don’t have to be afraid of “failure” anymore.
Speak with a certified sex coach to get help with all issues regarding your sexual relationship with yourself and your partner.
Full Program Milestones System
Weekly Live Coaching Calls (lifetime access)
Program App Access
Weekly Check-In Email
Additional Free Trainings
Bonus: Especially Difficult Moments Process
Bonus: 5-min Failure Turnaround Checklist
Bonus: Monthly Marriage Coaching Calls (your spouse is invited for free!)
Easy Commitment Package (shame turnaround, discouraged turnaround, overwhelm turnaround)
*Must be 18 years or older to join. If you are not over 18, send an email to [email protected] for additional options and referrals.
*A limited number of scholarships are available for those who qualify. If finances are especially tight for you, click here to learn more.
• Learn how to maintain commitment easily.
• How to quickly get back on track when you feel unmotivated.
• Discover a shame-free reason to quit porn that excites you to keep going.
• Learn how FAILURE IS IMPOSSIBLE and SIMULTANEOUSLY INEVITABLE.
• How to take every “slip up” and turn it into a true “stepping stone.”
• Gather data around your slip ups instead of ignoring them and pretending that they didn’t happen.
• Learn how how to accept your normal, natural sexual self while choosing sexual actions inside your value system.
• A deep dive into masturbation, why we are afraid of it, what the research really says, and how to make decisions for your own life regarding masturbation.
• Dispel "Porn Panic" and use non-biased research to dispel shame and increase your individual self control to really move past this issue.
• Learn to manage urges easily without willpower.
• Stop the willpower/give-in cycle.
• Stop being afraid of urges. Learn how to process urges.
• Decrease desires without running away, resisting, or relying on blocks and filters. Urges are only difficult because you've been taught to handle them with willpower. This milestone will make quitting porn so much easier.
• How to heal deep internalized shame around this issue so that you can quit easier than ever before.
• Get out of shame spirals, and make quitting porn an enjoyable process instead of shame-filled process.
• Learn how to address the root of your specific shame stories.
• Learn easy, effective body techniques to help yourself in a shame response. Shame is more than a feeling, it impacts multiple systems in our body.
• Learn to stop using porn as a coping mechanism.
• Exactly what to do when you have emotions that lead to viewing porn like loneliness, boredom, stress, etc.
• Exercises to stop feeling apathy, shame, and worthlessness.
• What to do if you’re stuck in a shame and binge spiral.
• How to BECOME someone who doesn’t want porn.
• How to quit even though there’s a part of you that enjoys pornography.
• Why you view pornography even if you don’t have urges.
• How to change your identity to really move past this.
You are not stuck with this forever. This is not something you just have to accept as a struggle for the rest of your life.
A mind at peace - no more regret and fear.
Beautiful, fulfilling relationships built on trust.
No more exhaustion and burnout from willpower.
Deep self trust and confidence in yourself and that you can change. (If you can learn to quit porn, what else could you do?)
Firm belief that you are not dirty or unworthy, so there's no more hiding from your friends, parents, or spouse.
Being at peace with yourself and in your relationships.
More time and energy for work, school, and other priorities.
Not being afraid of your sexual urges. Knowing exactly what to do when you feel them.
Learning to feel worthy and spiritually aligned again - even if you aren't perfect at this.
Increasing your emotional intelligence, understanding of your brain, and how to build life sustaining habits that serve you.
No more passing up opportunities (like dating or work) because you believe you're not good enough.
This habit affects every area of your life - relationships, work, school. There will never be a “better” or “more convenient” time to overcome this habit. What if now is the perfect time?
Perfect. Use this to your advantage. The process of overcoming pornography is the process of being uncomfortable. Let this be the start of your practice. Be nervous and show up for yourself anyway.
Use this to your advantage. The greater the struggle the greater the triumph. Is overcoming your pornography habit worth asking for help? Is it worth facing embarrassment, rejection, and vulnerability?
Failure is impossible and simultaneously inevitable here. We will teach you how to fail. You will learn to plan for every obstacle. We will teach you how to turn every “set back” into stepping stones. You don’t have to be perfect immediately, you just have to keep practicing.
That’s what happens when you’re focused on using willpower to say no to pornography. We don’t do that here. We learn how the brain works so that we can change our desire instead of always fighting it.
You have access to all of the material, weekly group calls, and the coaching board forever. Depending on availability, you can sign up for additional 1-on-1 sessions. We have set up our program so that you will have all of the support and information that you need.
Don’t take it from us, take it from all those who have been successful in my program. You can see their stories HERE. We know your current method isn’t working. Are you willing to try something that does work?A great way to test-drive the program is by watching our free masterclass. Watch now by clicking here.
The time varies each week in order to fit differing schedules. You’ll get an email at the beginning of each month with group coaching dates and times.
We coach individuals while other members of the group listen. We will do as many people as can fit in the hour. You will gain incredible insight hearing other people get coached!
This is normal. We've got you. Coaching is a judgment-free zone, but you can always be anonymous if you get coached during a group call.
No. You can keep your camera off to remain anonymous.
Listen to the replay at your convenience!
Yes. These tools apply to this situation.
You get access to everything as soon as you sign up.
You can work at your own pace as your schedule allows. You can change your life with just a few minutes a day or a few times a week. One video, one milestone, one coaching call can completely turn things around for you.
No. You don’t have to worry about someone stumbling onto your profile or finding out that you’re a part of this program.
Possibly. Check with your employer or insurance provider if you are unsure. Once you sign up for Overcome Pornography for Good, you will receive an email receipt that you can include in any paperwork.
We get it. Especially if this is your first time investing in yourself this way.
What would you pay for a wedding ring, a car, or a vacation? Probably much more than the program costs.
We pay for the things that are important to us. What is quitting pornography worth to you?
If finances are especially tight for you, we do offer scholarships. Click here to learn more.
Yes! You can see the payment options above. Or send us an email ([email protected]) if you're interested in a 12-Month Payment Plan.
Full Program Milestones System
Weekly Live Coaching Calls (lifetime access)
Program App Access
Weekly Check-In Email
Additional Free Trainings
Bonus: Especially Difficult Moments Process
Bonus: 5-min Failure Turnaround Checklist
Bonus: Monthly Marriage Coaching Calls (your spouse is invited for free!)
Easy Commitment Package (shame turnaround, discouraged turnaround, overwhelm turnaround)
*Must be 18 years or older to join. If you are not over 18, send an email to [email protected] for additional options and referrals.
*A limited number of scholarships are available for those who qualify. If finances are especially tight for you, click here to learn more.