Sara Brewer Podcast Episode 175 - Masturbation

Episode 175: Masturbation

May 20, 20242 min read

Is your shame around porn use causing you distress because of the porn, because of the masturbation, or both? The realm of sexuality can sometimes be erotic, strange, or even dark, and that’s okay

Porn use and masturbation often go hand-in-hand, and in this episode, we’re diving deep into the research on masturbation to help you release your distress and feel empowered instead. While there continues to be so much misinformation about masturbation, there is no evidence of it causing negative health effects, so why do we still believe it’s harmful?

Join me in this episode to hear about the worries people experience about masturbation, and why it’s actually a completely normal part of healthy development. I’m exploring how extreme distress can cause sexual trauma, why the shame around masturbation is learned and unhealthy, and the damaging effects of sexual shame.

 

My free masterclass, How to Overcome Pornography for Good Without Using Willpower, is getting revamped! And I will be teaching it live on May 23rd 2024 at 5pm MT. To reserve your spot for the live class or to receive the replay, click here!

 

Also, I will be doing a bonus Q&A episode on the topics we've been discussing on the podcast recently, so if you would like me to answer your questions or comment on your thoughts, please send them to [email protected].

   

What You'll Learn from this Episode: 

  • Myths about masturbation that simply aren’t true.

  • Why you can’t get addicted to dopamine.

  • How to bring down your over-desire for porn.

  • Why you might be experiencing distress over masturbation.

  • When masturbation can become harmful.

  • How treating problematic porn use with abstinence often makes the problem worse.

  • The damaging effects of sexual shame.

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Sara Brewer is a certified life and trauma-informed coach. She has helped over a thousand people quit porn through her coaching programs and tens of thousands through her highly-rated podcast, Overcome Pornography for Good.

Sara shares her story in her free webinars, but the simple version is that she saw shame's role in compulsive pornography use, and after developing a process focused on addressing shame as the root, her clients saw amazing success. This is why The Center for Overcoming Pornography exists.

Sara Brewer

Sara Brewer is a certified life and trauma-informed coach. She has helped over a thousand people quit porn through her coaching programs and tens of thousands through her highly-rated podcast, Overcome Pornography for Good. Sara shares her story in her free webinars, but the simple version is that she saw shame's role in compulsive pornography use, and after developing a process focused on addressing shame as the root, her clients saw amazing success. This is why The Center for Overcoming Pornography exists.

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