Sara Brewer Podcast Episode 135 - Fixing Things Is Exhausting You

Episode 135: Fixing Things Is Exhausting You

August 14, 20232 min read

All of us, at one point or another, can get into a perpetual state of trying to fix every single thing about ourselves. Whether it's a porn habit, losing weight, or anything else, what often happens is that we fix one thing, only for another to surface, and so the cycle continues.

While our brains are programmed to look for what’s wrong with us, it’s not true that there’s always something wrong with you. Constantly fixing and solving what we perceive to be a problem is exhausting. And this week, I want to offer the idea that all parts of you are wise and have something valuable to offer, even the part of you that desires porn.

Join me this week to discover why you don’t have to feel shame about your desire for porn, and how to redirect that energy in other ways by listening to it and learning from it. You’ll hear why it’s worth exploring what you currently believe is a problem and how to use your bodily wisdom to create the life you want. 

If you’re ready to do this work and start practicing unconditional commitment toward quitting your porn habit, sign up to work with me!

What You'll Learn from this Episode: 

  • Why buffering and your desire for porn aren’t problems.

  • The importance of listening to your desire for porn.

  • How you possess wisdom within you that needs to be heard.

  • One question to ask yourself when you experience the desire to escape with porn.

  • How there is so much wisdom we miss out on when we are focused on fixing.

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Sara Brewer is a certified life and trauma-informed coach. She has helped over a thousand people quit porn through her coaching programs and tens of thousands through her highly-rated podcast, Overcome Pornography for Good.

Sara shares her story in her free webinars, but the simple version is that she saw shame's role in compulsive pornography use, and after developing a process focused on addressing shame as the root, her clients saw amazing success. This is why The Center for Overcoming Pornography exists.

Sara Brewer

Sara Brewer is a certified life and trauma-informed coach. She has helped over a thousand people quit porn through her coaching programs and tens of thousands through her highly-rated podcast, Overcome Pornography for Good. Sara shares her story in her free webinars, but the simple version is that she saw shame's role in compulsive pornography use, and after developing a process focused on addressing shame as the root, her clients saw amazing success. This is why The Center for Overcoming Pornography exists.

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