Episode 117: Should Your Spouse Fulfill Your Sexual Needs? with Amanda Louder
Many of us have received the conditioning that men are typically the sexual ones in a relationship and that they have an insatiable sexual need that has to be satisfied. In the context of a monogamous relationship, the responsibility to fulfill that sexual need falls on the partner, but this belief often doesn’t create great results.
To dive into this topic, I’m talking to sex coach Amanda Louder. I often recommend Amanda to my clients so she is no stranger to the Overcome Pornography for Good program. She’s also the host of the Sex for Saints podcast, and she helps women learn to embrace their sexuality and love their sex life.
Listen in this week to hear why we have to reframe the belief that your spouse should fulfill your sexual needs. Amanda is sharing where this belief comes from, what you miss out on when you believe this messaging, and her top tips for what actually creates the best, most fulfilling sexual relationship.
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What You'll Learn from this Episode:
How to reframe the belief that you need to fulfill your spouse’s sexual wants.
Why women typically don’t have the same urge and physiological push towards sex.
How the belief might be harming your relationship.
Amanda’s tips for connecting with your spouse, even if they aren’t interested in sex.
Why your sexuality is both a gift and your responsibility.
Amanda’s insights on how to have a beautiful and fulfilling sexual relationship with your spouse.
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