Episode 81: Maybe the Problem Isn’t You
While I was on a boating vacation with my family, I decided to go out paddleboarding. I immediately started spinning around in circles, going absolutely nowhere, and no matter how hard I paddled, I was moving backward. Frustrated and deflated, I told myself I was horrible at paddleboarding and that I sucked.
That was until I figured out the rudder on my paddleboard was on backward. And it got me thinking, how does this apply to what all of you are experiencing? Because sometimes, the problem isn’t that you just suck. Sometimes, the problem is that you need to take a look at the systems and the way you’re going about where you’re trying to get.
Join me to discover how, maybe, the problem isn’t you if you’re struggling to quit viewing pornography. You’ll hear my revelations from my paddle boarding experience that will apply perfectly to where you are right now, and how to start shifting the focus away from you.
If you’re ready to do this work and start practicing unconditional commitment toward quitting your porn habit, sign up to work with me!
What You'll Learn from this Episode:
How we tell ourselves we are the problem if something isn’t working for us.
The reality of why quitting porn is so difficult.
How we’ve been taught and conditioned to think about quitting porn, and how it leads to you thinking you’re the problem.
What to focus on to see how, maybe, the problem isn’t you.
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