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Episode 256: Tools to Stay Committed During the Holiday Season with Hunter

December 15, 20252 min read

Are you worried about staying committed during the busy holiday season? The holidays bring travel, family dynamics, stress, and disrupted routines that can trigger emotional discomfort. In this episode, Hunter addresses a concern many have when working to overcome pornography: how to keep making progress when your normal systems and routines are disrupted.

Hunter reframes the holidays not as a setback, but as an opportunity to practice the skills you've been developing. While your environment may change and emotional triggers may become louder, these challenges offer a chance to test and strengthen the tools you've learned. Feeling more difficult emotions doesn’t mean you're failing. It’s simply a normal part of the process.

You'll learn mindset shifts that can make a real difference during the holidays, like understanding that increased urges are a natural brain response to unusual circumstances. Hunter also explains why true commitment isn’t about having zero urges, but about showing up and using your tools when those urges arise. By the end of this episode, you’ll understand that success during the holidays isn’t about perfection, but about showing up consistently, even when it feels challenging.

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What You'll Learn from this Episode:

  • Why holiday stress and disrupted routines are normal, not failures in your recovery journey.

  • How to view increased urges as a natural response to change, not a crisis.

  • Why consistency is key during the holidays, rather than striving for perfection.

  • Practical tools like two-minute breathing exercises, the daily model, and urge awareness checks.

  • Why planning ahead for urges helps reduce their intensity.

  • How starting your day with intentional thoughts can improve your mindset.

  • What success looks like during the holidays: consistency, not perfection.

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Sara Brewer is a certified life and trauma-informed coach. She has helped over a thousand people quit porn through her coaching programs and tens of thousands through her highly-rated podcast, Overcome Pornography for Good.

Sara shares her story in her free webinars, but the simple version is that she saw shame's role in compulsive pornography use, and after developing a process focused on addressing shame as the root, her clients saw amazing success. This is why The Center for Overcoming Pornography exists.

Sara Brewer

Sara Brewer is a certified life and trauma-informed coach. She has helped over a thousand people quit porn through her coaching programs and tens of thousands through her highly-rated podcast, Overcome Pornography for Good. Sara shares her story in her free webinars, but the simple version is that she saw shame's role in compulsive pornography use, and after developing a process focused on addressing shame as the root, her clients saw amazing success. This is why The Center for Overcoming Pornography exists.

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