Episode 120: Relationship Spirals with Lindsay Poelman
There is so much pressure on both parties in a relationship when it comes to one spouse’s porn use. Women have been taught to believe something terrible about themselves if their husbands look at porn, and men equally have a specific kind of pressure society expects them to carry.
If you and your partner are committed to healing and building connection, but it seems to be putting you both in a tailspin, listen in. Lindsay Poelman is a life coach focused on helping people who are struggling with their spouse’s porn use and an expert in trauma-informed coaching, and she’s here this week to shed light on what relationship spirals mean, and how to get out of them.
Join us on this episode as Lindsay shares how relationship spirals have a lot to do with our individual conditioning. You’ll hear why we have to first understand the context of our conditioning to untangle our relationship spirals, and how you’re both allowed to create a safe space for your own healing.
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What You'll Learn from this Episode:
What relationship spirals are.
The power of understanding our own conditioning patterns.
How we get in relationship spirals.
The value of learning how to anchor in your own safety.
What you can do to honor your safety when you feel like you’ve betrayed your partner.
Lindsay’s experience of creating her own internal safety and healing.
What an emotionally abusive relationship might look like.
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