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Episode 243: Rebuilding Your Mindset and Confidence with Hunter

September 15, 20252 min read

Have you ever wondered why all your hard work to overcome pornography still leaves you stuck in the same patterns? Many people are primarily focusing on filters, routines, or counting days. They work hard, follow all the steps, and still find themselves stuck in the same patterns, wondering why their efforts aren’t paying off.

In this episode, Coach Hunter explains why all of that misses the point. Mindset comes before behavior, self-trust comes before success, and belief comes before breakthrough. Pornography erodes confidence by teaching people to escape emotions instead of engaging with them, and no amount of tools or routines can fix that. Hunter uses the example of an elite athlete who trains perfectly but falters on game day because he doesn’t believe he can succeed to show why mindset matters as much as action.

You’ll learn how to rebuild self-trust through small promises, why it’s critical to live from your future identity instead of your past, and how training your mindset like an elite athlete can change everything. Hunter shares practical strategies for moving from fear-based thinking to confidence-driven action so you can walk into each day knowing you are built to win.

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What You'll Learn from this Episode:

  • Why routines and filters won’t create freedom if self-trust isn’t rebuilt.

  • How emotions and urges are wise and can guide you if you engage with them.

  • The difference between living from your past versus your future identity.

  • Why winners train their minds as much or more than their bodies.

  • How to rebuild self-trust through small, keepable promises.

  • What practicing your future identity looks like in daily life.

  • How to ask “What would the free version of me do today?” to guide your actions.

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Sara Brewer is a certified life and trauma-informed coach. She has helped over a thousand people quit porn through her coaching programs and tens of thousands through her highly-rated podcast, Overcome Pornography for Good.

Sara shares her story in her free webinars, but the simple version is that she saw shame's role in compulsive pornography use, and after developing a process focused on addressing shame as the root, her clients saw amazing success. This is why The Center for Overcoming Pornography exists.

Sara Brewer

Sara Brewer is a certified life and trauma-informed coach. She has helped over a thousand people quit porn through her coaching programs and tens of thousands through her highly-rated podcast, Overcome Pornography for Good. Sara shares her story in her free webinars, but the simple version is that she saw shame's role in compulsive pornography use, and after developing a process focused on addressing shame as the root, her clients saw amazing success. This is why The Center for Overcoming Pornography exists.

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