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Episode 202: It's Not Weakness: The Real Reason Behind Unwanted Pornography Use

December 02, 20242 min read

Something you may have been told before about your unwanted porn use is that you don’t have a moral compass and that you lack self-control. This simply not true. The reason you view porn isn’t weakness or a lack of righteousness, so listen in to learn the real reason behind unwanted pornography use.

Over here, we understand that pornography is an easy way to escape your emotions (buffering), just like some people start binge eating from stress or watching TV to overcome their boredom. When you see where your porn use is really coming from, only then can you start doing something about changing this habit.

Tune in this week as I try something new on the podcast. I conducted a live stream, inviting listener questions, talking directly to listeners just like you. I dive deep into the real reason behind your unwanted pornography use, and I give you the foundations for making real progress toward quitting porn. These events are free, and an amazing way to get more help. If you’d like the links and schedules to attend, sign up here!

If you’re ready to do this work and start practicing unconditional commitment toward quitting your porn habit, sign up to work with me!  

What You'll Learn from this Episode:

  • What buffering with pornography looks like and why this isn’t a long-term solution.

  • Some of the conditioning that leads to people using porn as an escape in the first place.

  • Why we need to take the shame out of your pornography habit.

  • Some tips for talking to young people about their shame around masturbation.

  • The wisdom you’ll find when you stop feeling ashamed.

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Sara Brewer is a certified life and trauma-informed coach. She has helped over a thousand people quit porn through her coaching programs and tens of thousands through her highly-rated podcast, Overcome Pornography for Good.

Sara shares her story in her free webinars, but the simple version is that she saw shame's role in compulsive pornography use, and after developing a process focused on addressing shame as the root, her clients saw amazing success. This is why The Center for Overcoming Pornography exists.

Sara Brewer

Sara Brewer is a certified life and trauma-informed coach. She has helped over a thousand people quit porn through her coaching programs and tens of thousands through her highly-rated podcast, Overcome Pornography for Good. Sara shares her story in her free webinars, but the simple version is that she saw shame's role in compulsive pornography use, and after developing a process focused on addressing shame as the root, her clients saw amazing success. This is why The Center for Overcoming Pornography exists.

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