Episode 25: What to Do if Your Partner is Struggling with Porn with Lindsay Poelman
I am so excited to bring you an interview this week with an amazing coach and friend of mine, Lindsay Poelman. I feel truly lucky to know her, and hearing from her today is going to give all of you some great insights into the work we do here on the podcast, especially if you have a partner who is struggling with porn use.
Lindsay Poelman is a coach who experienced firsthand the realities of having a partner who is battling a pornography habit. Now, she dedicates her work to empower women in their marriages regardless of what their husband is doing, or not doing. Whether your husband is viewing porn, has decided to quit, or has tried quitting and is struggling, Lindsay is here to help you live a life beyond what you perhaps believe is possible right now.
Join me on the podcast this week as I put your questions to Lindsay Poelman around what to do if your partner is struggling with porn. Lindsay is sharing the story of how she found coaching, the difference it’s made in her marriage, and how you can empower yourself in navigating the ebbs and flows of a marriage.
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What You'll Learn from this Episode:
The story of how Lindsay discovered the extent of her husband’s porn use.
Why problems like pornography use don’t have to define your marriage.
How to work through your thoughts and feelings when you don’t feel like your partner is being honest.
The work that Lindsay does with her clients in empowering themselves despite whatever their partner is going through.
What you can do to work through communication struggles around your partner’s porn use.
Why resentment is a normal feeling to experience in this situation, but you can choose to let it go when the time is right for you.
How to feel happiness, safety, and security, even if your partner isn’t doing their own work to change.
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