Episode 82: Loneliness - OPFG Program Sara Brewer

Episode 82: Loneliness

August 08, 20222 min read

Loneliness is something that comes up for a lot of my clients as a reason for viewing porn. They feel lonely, and they want to escape it. So, if your brain is filled with thoughts of being alone forever, that you’re not enough for someone else, and you feel shame and self-pity around these thoughts, this episode is for you.

The truth is it’s possible to feel lonely and still have more productive thoughts about your situation. Loneliness isn’t fun, but so many people make it harder for themselves by thinking thoughts that only serve to make them feel even worse. So, in this episode, I’m showing you how to change the story around your loneliness, so you don’t need to turn to pornography for company.

Tune in this week to discover how the feeling of loneliness contributes to a pornography habit. I’m sharing the impact of the thoughts you have around your loneliness, how to recognize these thoughts when they come up, and I’m showing you how to change the narrative that your loneliness is something that needs a quick and temporary fix.

If you’re ready to do this work and start practicing unconditional commitment toward quitting your porn habit, sign up to work with me! 

What You'll Learn from this Episode:

  • Why loneliness drives so many people toward pornography.

  • How your thoughts about feeling lonely only serve to make you feel even worse.

  • The difference between clean pain versus dirty pain.

  • Where thought work will help you see the stories you’re telling yourself about your emotions.

  • The importance of accepting the 50:50 that life offers us.

  • How to change the narrative in your brain and see that you don’t need to turn to porn to fix your loneliness.

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  • Why loneliness drives so many people toward pornography.

  • How your thoughts about feeling lonely only serve to make you feel even worse.

  • The difference between clean pain versus dirty pain.

  • Where thought work will help you see the stories you’re telling yourself about your emotions.

  • The importance of accepting the 50:50 that life offers us.

  • How to change the narrative in your brain and see that you don’t need to turn to porn to fix your loneliness.

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Sara Brewer is a certified life and trauma-informed coach. She has helped over a thousand people quit porn through her coaching programs and tens of thousands through her highly-rated podcast, Overcome Pornography for Good.

Sara shares her story in her free webinars, but the simple version is that she saw shame's role in compulsive pornography use, and after developing a process focused on addressing shame as the root, her clients saw amazing success. This is why The Center for Overcoming Pornography exists.

Sara Brewer

Sara Brewer is a certified life and trauma-informed coach. She has helped over a thousand people quit porn through her coaching programs and tens of thousands through her highly-rated podcast, Overcome Pornography for Good. Sara shares her story in her free webinars, but the simple version is that she saw shame's role in compulsive pornography use, and after developing a process focused on addressing shame as the root, her clients saw amazing success. This is why The Center for Overcoming Pornography exists.

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