Episode 242: Setting Boundaries with Loved Ones and Religious Leaders While Overcoming Porn
Setting boundaries can feel challenging, especially when it involves people you care about—whether it’s a spouse, family, friends, or religious leaders. In this episode, we revisit an important discussion about setting healthy boundaries while overcoming pornography.
When you’re navigating this journey, conflicting advice can be frustrating, especially when it comes from trusted sources. A recent coaching call revealed a situation where a client felt overwhelmed by the contradictory advice given by different religious leaders about quitting porn. This experience sparked an important conversation about boundaries with religious leaders, as well as with spouses and loved ones who may unintentionally add pressure or shame.
Transparency is crucial in building trust, especially with your spouse, but it’s equally important to protect your emotional and spiritual well-being. In this episode, we discuss how to draw the line between honesty and self-protection, how to set boundaries that nurture your recovery, and why spiritual maturity is essential for maintaining healthy relationships. You'll hear practical advice on how to handle disclosure conversations, manage well-meaning but challenging check-ins, and establish healthy boundaries in every aspect of your life.
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What You'll Learn from this Episode:
How to set boundaries with your spouse around disclosure details and frequency.
Why your spouse shouldn’t be your accountability partner and how to find other support.
The questions religious leaders should never ask about your sexual activity.
How to manage friends and family who create pressure with check-ins.
The difference between building trust and accepting punishment in relationships.
Practical phrases to use when setting boundaries with religious leaders.
Why having conversations about sex education and consent is essential for protecting children.
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