Overcome Pornography for Good with Sara Brewer | What's Possible with Nathan

Episode 226. What’s Possible with Nathan

May 19, 20252 min read

What if breaking free from pornography doesn’t require attending every coaching call or relying on willpower alone? In this episode, Nathan shares his journey from years of struggling with pornography to reclaiming control of his life. Despite trying many programs and counseling sessions, he felt stuck and ashamed, unsure why he kept returning to pornography.

What makes Nathan's story particularly inspiring is that he achieved this transformation without ever attending a live coaching call. By diligently listening to call replays and implementing the tools from the program, he completely changed his relationship with pornography and, more importantly, with himself. This demonstrates that recovery is possible even if you cannot join live sessions or feel uncomfortable doing so.

Nathan explains how the key was learning to recognize and sit with his emotions instead of trying to push them away. He also discovered how changing his thoughts about himself and his situation created real change. His transformation goes far beyond pornography, improving his marriage, friendships, career, and overall life satisfaction.

Join our free community today! Get access to core teachings, live Q&A calls, and exclusive events—all in a supportive space to help you quit porn and stay connected. Click here to start your journey now!

If you’re ready to do this work and start practicing unconditional commitment toward quitting your porn habit, sign up to work with Sara!  

What You'll Learn from this Episode:

  • How the cycle of thoughts, feelings, actions, and results creates the foundation for lasting change.

  • Why traditional approaches to pornography recovery often fail to address the root causes.

  • How learning to sit with uncomfortable emotions can break the pornography cycle.

  • The importance of challenging thoughts rather than just trying to control actions.

  • Why counting days without pornography can be counterproductive to recovery.

  • How overcoming pornography can lead to improvements in all areas of life, from relationships to career.

Listen to the Full Episode:

Custom HTML/CSS/JAVASCRIPT

Featured on the Show:

  • Click here to sign up for my free masterclass called How to Overcome Pornography without using Willpower.

  • Click here to sign up to my email list.

  • Follow me on Instagram

Full Episode Transcript:

Download PDF

Custom HTML/CSS/JAVASCRIPT

Enjoy the Show?

If you’re ready to do this work and start practicing unconditional commitment toward quitting your porn habit, sign up to work with me!

Join now

Sara Brewer is a certified life and trauma-informed coach. She has helped over a thousand people quit porn through her coaching programs and tens of thousands through her highly-rated podcast, Overcome Pornography for Good.

Sara shares her story in her free webinars, but the simple version is that she saw shame's role in compulsive pornography use, and after developing a process focused on addressing shame as the root, her clients saw amazing success. This is why The Center for Overcoming Pornography exists.

Sara Brewer

Sara Brewer is a certified life and trauma-informed coach. She has helped over a thousand people quit porn through her coaching programs and tens of thousands through her highly-rated podcast, Overcome Pornography for Good. Sara shares her story in her free webinars, but the simple version is that she saw shame's role in compulsive pornography use, and after developing a process focused on addressing shame as the root, her clients saw amazing success. This is why The Center for Overcoming Pornography exists.

Back to Blog