The It’s-Not-Working Mentality

Episode 181: Ask a Coach: The It’s-Not-Working Mentality

August 15, 20242 min read
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Have you ever heard yourself say something along the lines of, “This isn’t working for me. It doesn’t matter what I do, I’m in the same place I started?”

Coach Kat is on the show this week to address the it’s-not-working mentality, where you feel stuck and like nothing has changed. Maybe it feels like you’ve been doing the work for months, only to keep viewing porn. Perhaps this plateau is tempting you to give up, but the truth is the breakthrough you’re looking for is right around the corner.

Listen in this week as Coach Kat shows you how the it’s-not-working mentality might be showing up for you, and why you shouldn’t give up at this point. You’ll hear why the work you’re currently doing isn’t going to waste, even if it feels like it, and how we know that the magic of change is inevitable if you don’t give up on yourself.

  

If you’re ready to do this work and start practicing unconditional commitment towards quitting your porn habit, sign up to work with me!

   

What You'll Learn from this Episode: 

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  • What the it’s-not-working mentality sounds like.

  • Why small, imperceptible changes are the secret to breaking through a plateau.

  • How you might be tempted to give up early, and why you shouldn’t.

     

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Sara Brewer is a certified life and trauma-informed coach. She has helped over a thousand people quit porn through her coaching programs and tens of thousands through her highly-rated podcast, Overcome Pornography for Good.

Sara shares her story in her free webinars, but the simple version is that she saw shame's role in compulsive pornography use, and after developing a process focused on addressing shame as the root, her clients saw amazing success. This is why The Center for Overcoming Pornography exists.

Sara Brewer

Sara Brewer is a certified life and trauma-informed coach. She has helped over a thousand people quit porn through her coaching programs and tens of thousands through her highly-rated podcast, Overcome Pornography for Good. Sara shares her story in her free webinars, but the simple version is that she saw shame's role in compulsive pornography use, and after developing a process focused on addressing shame as the root, her clients saw amazing success. This is why The Center for Overcoming Pornography exists.

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