Ask a Coach: How to Become Shame-Resilient

Episode 180: Ask a Coach: How to Become Shame-Resilient

August 04, 20241 min read

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This week’s Ask a Coach question is one many of you can probably relate to, and it goes like this: “Does the shame I feel after slipping up and viewing porn ever really go away?”

Shame is a universal human experience that all of us go through. While we can learn to move through shame in different and more useful ways, I don’t know that it’s possible to completely get rid of it. The good news is that while shame will continue to show up for us, what we can do is start developing shame-resilience.

Coach Jessica Farmer is here this week to shed light on what it means to become shame-resilient and how to start practicing this skill. She’s showing you examples of how shame might be running the show, and the importance of noticing how shame is showing up in your life so you can respond to it intentionally, show yourself compassion, and move on.

   

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What You'll Learn from this Episode: 

  • Why experiencing the emotion of shame is totally normal.

  • What it means to become shame-resilient.

  • Indicators that shame is driving your experience.

  • How to start developing shame-resilience.

     

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Sara Brewer is a certified life and trauma-informed coach. She has helped over a thousand people quit porn through her coaching programs and tens of thousands through her highly-rated podcast, Overcome Pornography for Good.

Sara shares her story in her free webinars, but the simple version is that she saw shame's role in compulsive pornography use, and after developing a process focused on addressing shame as the root, her clients saw amazing success. This is why The Center for Overcoming Pornography exists.

Sara Brewer

Sara Brewer is a certified life and trauma-informed coach. She has helped over a thousand people quit porn through her coaching programs and tens of thousands through her highly-rated podcast, Overcome Pornography for Good. Sara shares her story in her free webinars, but the simple version is that she saw shame's role in compulsive pornography use, and after developing a process focused on addressing shame as the root, her clients saw amazing success. This is why The Center for Overcoming Pornography exists.

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