Pillar Four: Becoming a New Person

Episode 46: Pillar One: Shame-Free Commitment

September 03, 20243 min read
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There are four pillars to consider when it comes to quitting porn, and I’m spending the next four episodes discussing each of them. So this week is the first pillar: shame-free commitment. Many of you have the commitment part down, but you’re missing the shame-free part, which actually makes it impossible to keep up with your commitment.

Many times, people say they’re committed to quitting porn, but having commitment doesn’t mean you’re excited about it or you’re going to be 100% perfect. This work is going to be difficult, and the hardest part will be avoiding that feeling of shame that keeps you going back to the comfort of pornography time after time. So in this episode, I’m sharing the secrets to cultivating shame-free commitment.

Tune in this week to discover how to develop the true shame-free commitment required for overcoming pornography. I’m sharing the conditioning and limiting beliefs that keep people stuck in their porn habit, and how you can move away from relying on shame and towards a porn-free life.

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What You'll Learn from this Episode:

  • The difference between being fully committed to quitting, versus being committed to trying to quit.

  • Why you need to be 100% honest with yourself about your commitment level.

  • The 6 milestones that we focus on and work towards while you’re quitting porn.

  • How it’s possible to be fully committed to quitting porn while still occasionally making mistakes.

  • What shame-free commitment looks like on your journey to overcoming pornography.

  • How to be curious about what’s going on for you when you’re on this journey, so you can avoid feelings of shame and quit for the right reasons.

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Featured on the Show:

  • Click here to sign up for my free masterclass called How to Quit Viewing Pornography Even if You’ve Tried in the Past!

  • Click here to sign up for my free masterclass called How to Quit Viewing Pornography Even if You’ve Tried in the Past!

  • Episode 45: Overindulgence

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Founder + Chief Executive Officer
Sara Brewer is a certified life and trauma-informed coach. She has helped over a thousand people quit porn through her coaching programs and tens of thousands
through her highly-rated podcast, Overcome Pornography for Good.
Sara shares her story in her free webinars, but the simple version is that she saw shame's role in compulsive pornography use and after developing a process focused on addressing shame as the root, her clients saw amazing success. This is why The Center for Overcoming Pornography Exists.

Sara Brewer

Founder + Chief Executive Officer Sara Brewer is a certified life and trauma-informed coach. She has helped over a thousand people quit porn through her coaching programs and tens of thousands through her highly-rated podcast, Overcome Pornography for Good. Sara shares her story in her free webinars, but the simple version is that she saw shame's role in compulsive pornography use and after developing a process focused on addressing shame as the root, her clients saw amazing success. This is why The Center for Overcoming Pornography Exists.

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